Author · Educator · Adoption Advocate · Creative Producer

Finding Identity. Creating Belonging. Inspiring Impact.

Transforming lived experience into literature, leadership, and lasting change.

About Joi

Educator. Author. Advocate for Family & Belonging.

Joi R. Fisher-Griffin brings nearly three decades of experience in education, leadership, and storytelling to every stage, page, and platform she occupies.

As the author of Finding Joi: A True Story of Faith, Family & Love, she writes and speaks on adoption, identity, resilience, and the transformative power of belonging — empowering others to turn their experiences into impact.

As an AI strategist and founder of Legacy Creative AI Solutions, Joi helps educators, authors, nonprofit leaders, and entrepreneurs leverage artificial intelligence to work smarter, amplify their expertise, and bring ideas to life. Through consulting, training, publishing support, and creative innovation, she bridges human experience with emerging technology, helping individuals and organizations transform knowledge, stories, and vision into meaningful results.

"Adoption loss is the only trauma in the world where the victims are expected by the whole of society to be grateful."

The Reverend Keith C. Griffith, MBE

Mission

Building Bridges for Adoptive & Foster Families

Joi serves as a bridge — educating teachers, businesses, faith communities, and organizations on how to support adoptive and foster families with compassion and understanding.

Educators

Equipping teachers and counselors with tools to support adoptive and foster children in the classroom.

Communities

Helping businesses, faith groups, and organizations embrace adoption conversations with empathy.

Families

Creating environments where adoptive and foster families feel seen, heard, and valued.

Books & Music

Finding Joi: A True Story of Faith, Family & Love

Joi's debut book series follows an adoptee's journey through faith, family, and love — bringing authentic, compassionate storytelling to children and adults navigating the adoption experience. Each page is an invitation to feel seen, understood, and less alone.

Speaking & Media

Featured On

Joi's advocacy, storytelling, and expertise have been recognized by leading publications and adoption organizations nationwide.

Speaking Topics

Adoption & Identity

The emotional and psychological journey of adoptees finding their story.

Trauma-Informed Education

Equipping educators to support children from adoptive and foster backgrounds.

Faith, Family & Belonging

Exploring how community and spirituality shape our sense of home.

Turning Pain Into Purpose

Transforming lived experience into advocacy, art, and leadership.

Research & Advocacy

Fighting for Adoptee Rights in New Jersey

NJ is an access state. Since May 2014, adult adoptees have had the legal right to obtain their original birth certificate — a milestone decades in the making.

#AdopteeRights · #NewJerseyAccess · #AdoptionAdvocacy

OBC Eligibility

When Can Adoptees Obtain Their Original Birth Certificate?

Adopted On or After Nov. 19, 1940

Under the 2014 law, beginning January 2017, adult adoptees may request a non-certified copy of their OBC.

Adopted Before Nov. 19, 1940

The OBC has always been accessible upon request without a court order.

Who Can Request an OBC?

The Adult Adoptee

Direct Descendant, Sibling, or Spouse

Adoptive Parent, Legal Guardian, or Representative

State or Federal Agency

Step-by-Step Process

How to Request Your Original Birth Certificate

All certificates are mailed to the applicant — no in-person pickup available. Processing times vary, as requests involve manual searches through sealed paper records. The OVSR reviews birth parent contact preferences and any redactions before releasing the OBC.

Birth Parent Rights

Privacy Protections & Contact Preferences

Redaction Rights

Birth parents could redact their identifying information — but only if they submitted a request by December 31, 2016. No new redaction requests are accepted after this date.

Contact Preference Options

Prior to Dec. 31, 2016, birth parents could submit a Contact Preference Form indicating:

  • Direct contact
  • Contact through an intermediary
  • No contact at this time

If no preference was submitted before the OBC is released, the adoptee may attempt direct contact.

What to Expect

What Will Applicants Receive?

Non-Certified OBC Copy

For informational use only — not valid for legal identification purposes.

Family History Details

If birth parents provided family history information, this will be included with the OBC.

Redacted Information

If a birth parent requested redaction, identifying information will be blacked out on the OBC.

Documentation

Identification Required

Applicants must provide valid identification when requesting an OBC. Accepted forms include:

Primary ID

  • Current, valid photo ID (driver's license, non-driver's license, or passport)
  • A legal birth certificate

Alternate ID (Two Required)

  • Vehicle registration
  • Bank statement
  • Tax return or utility bill
  • Certified marriage/civil union certificate (if name changed)
Support Resources

Counseling & Support for Adoptees and Birth Parents

You don't have to navigate this journey alone. The following organizations offer counseling, guidance, and community for adoptees and birth parents.

NJ Mental Health Cares

www.njmentalhealthcares.org
866-202-4357 (Mon–Fri, 8 AM – 8 PM)

NJ Adoption Resource Clearing House (NJ ARCH)

www.njarch.org
1-877-427-2465

24/7 Confidential Support

1-855-654-6735

Diocese of Metuchen Catholic Charities

Middlesex: 800-655-9491 | Hunterdon: 908-782-7905
Warren: 908-454-2074 | Somerset: 908-722-1881

Work With Joi

Let's Create Something Meaningful Together

Whether you're looking for a keynote speaker, a workshop facilitator, a creative collaborator, or an author visit — Joi brings depth, warmth, and lived expertise to every engagement.

Keynote Speaking

Powerful, story-driven talks on adoption, identity, trauma-informed education, and belonging. Available for conferences, schools, faith communities, and corporate events.

Workshops & Training

Interactive sessions for educators, counselors, and organizations on supporting adoptive and foster families with compassion and cultural competency.

Author Visits & Book Clubs

Intimate conversations about Finding Joi, the adoption experience, and the power of storytelling to heal and connect.

Creative Consulting

Collaborative support for writers, educators, and advocates looking to develop their voice, story, or platform.

Community

Join the Conversation

Together, we can create spaces where adoptive and foster families feel seen, heard, and valued. Let's break the silence around adoption — with kind, thoughtful words that uplift families on their journey.

Contact

Let's Connect

Joi welcomes inquiries from organizations, schools, educators, media, brand partners, and anyone whose life has been touched by adoption.

Get in Touch

  • 📧 Speaking & Media: via booking form
  • 📚 Book & Publishing Inquiries: via website

Follow the Journey

Stay connected with Joi's latest work, advocacy updates, and upcoming events.

Every story matters. Every family belongs.
— Joi R. Fisher-Griffin